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A Stepmothers' Guide to Overcoming Power Struggles with Stepchildren |
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I entered the kitchen, I saw a pizza-encrusted
plate and a greasy glass on the same countertop I had just finished
cleaning fifteen minutes earlier. Exasperation seethed through my veins
as I realized that my stepson once again had totally disregarded the
request I made the day before to put his dirty dishes in the
dishwasher, not on the counter. Looking back, I realize that the dirty
plate in itself was no big deal. What was disturbing was his
intentional disregard of my simple request.
Power struggles with your husband's children can be
common when you're a stepmother. But there are ways to deal with them
constructively and even to diffuse them before they frustrate you down
to your toenails. Here are some guidelines that I can offer after
fifteen years experience as a stepmother:
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