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Help for New Stepmoms
By Lisa Marie Metzler
Becoming a stepparent is part of the package deal when you marry a man with kids in tow. But before visions of the Brady Bunch dance in your head, you should know that the road to harmonious blending takes more effort than a 22-minute sitcom.

The best intentions to forge a bond with your new stepchildren can be met with heartache, discouragement and bitterness. Don't expect a lot of warm, fuzzy feelings in the beginning. Start slowly and pursue a relationship based on friendship with your new stepchildren. Be genuine and honest. If you express how great your relationship is going to be and how perfect the children are, chances are they'll think you're a phony. Children, especially younger ones, may still be hurting over the divorce and may not be ready to accept you.
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