My 11 year old has just told our family that she doesn't like her step dad, my husband. We have been together for 3 1/4 years, married for 2. My husband is devastated, there has been unease with them the whole time, however, it is now rock bottom. My daughter hates her biological father and I have taken her to counselling of different types over the years, now she doesn't want to talk to anyone. She finds her little sister extremely annoying and I copped a serve as well that I have changed and I'm always on my husband's side. I'm feeling very depressed and not sure how to handle this one. My husband has seen how she has disengaged from her biological father and he feels his attempts to ignore the underlying current and be as nice as possible hasn't worked. We are all very sensitive people and this conflict is tearing us apart, where to from here?